"When the going gets tough and the pressure's on, its not necessarily the talented ones who rise to the challenge, it's the one's who love themselves.
Liking yourself and feeling you deserve a great life is absolutely fundamental to your success. In fact, you could even be living a great life but, because you don't like yourself enough, you'll feel unable to enjoy it and make the most of it. The more you see yourself as a good person, the more powerful you become and the more you're a force for good in the world. And the world needs good people. Secondly, good people deserve to live the best possible life. They've earned it. Good people are the most likely to dislike themselves. The reason for this is that they desire to do good, to do the right thing, to cause no harm or suffering to another living being.
Your sense of who you are is overwhelmingly shaped by the individuals around you. You believe what you're told to believe by the authority figures in your life. And, you're trapped in that environment, however gruesome it may be.
And the most bizarre thing is this: it's overwhelmingly the negative input we hold onto and regard as true.
Deep inside of all of us, there's someone we were meant to be. But, too often, we define ourselves by our circumstances and feel great only if things are going well. If life goes badly, we feel worthless or look to other things or people or the "perfect" job to define us and prop up our self-esteem. We discover our true identities by finding out what we want -or don't want- to do.
Unless you've consciously detoxed your mind, then assume you have impacted waste material festering away in your psyche, the result of years upon years of accumulated junk messages absorbed by you from the outset. In order for you to feel clean and wholesome, you have to root this out. The alternative is to live with chronic, low-level uncertainty about yourself. Undermining your aliveness, your personal power and effectiveness in the world.
LOVE YOU!
Right here, right now, make the decision to appreciate yourself more, give credit where its due, talk yourself up. Cultivate kindness, compassion and respect - FOR YOU! Face the truth: you came into this world on your own and you will leave it on your own. At some time in between, it makes sense to get comfortable with yourself. It's your life. Answer to yourself, hold yourself accountable...start on that NOW!
Don't ever demean yourself in public or private. Drop all false modesty. Speak only well of yourself. Exude self-confidence.
CHANGE THE RECORD!
Whose opinions and thoughts are stuck in your mind? If they're not yours, don't hold onto them. You're a grown-up now. You can think your own thoughts, you can choose what to give room to. It doesn't matter how long some stuff has been there: if it's toxic, get rid of it. Only you get to decide what to believe about yourself. You're a work in progress. Be yourself. Be whoever you like. You decide, then live it.
Liking yourself is your birthright. Maintaining it requires momentum. Continually give yourself good reasons to like yourself. Remind yourself who you really are. Be everything you desire and admire in others.
Spoil yourself. Spend some quality time with you. Chill out with your new best friend - YOU!
Discover your hidden depths, your likes and dislikes, entertain yourself. If you don't find yourself good company, how can others?
You'll give off a far better air about yourself if you pay attention to grooming.
Grooming speaks volumes. Look immaculate. Smell divine. Wear great underwear. Get "THE LOOK."
Appearances matter. Don't look neglected. If you don't have pride, nobody can give it to you. Make yourself downright irresistible. Judging by your own standards, you're fabulous, always compelling, immensely likeable, utterly loveable.
MOTIVATION!
Motivation is the master key to all success. You achieve little without it. It's the engine, the pump room of your desires, dreams and ambitions. It's the bridge between passion and action. You won't go far without it. Its good, it's destructive, it's powerful, its whatever you make it. Motivated people bring a certain urgency to the table, to their own lives and everyone else's. The power of motivation is undisputable."
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